What settles me is ds stopped growing at 32weeks and he was 2.2kg and he was born at 36 weeks at 2.2kg, so if we have another and i have HELLP the baby will be born at 28-32 weeks so 4lb 13oz is pretty good for a 32weeker so hopefully my baby will be big again!
How did bonding go with her dd being so far away? Was she able to breastfeed? For me, breastfeeding is so important in bonding, i feel its the thing that bonds ds and I.
After going through it i dont like to know others have so for your sister and your family, you must have all been soo scared, i know my family was!