New to this so please forgive my all over nature. My wife was 10 - 11 weeks pregnant and till last week everything was fine till our obstetrician couldnt find the heart beat and then panic stations occurred and another more powerful ultrasound was used and then it was confirmed..not heart beat... My wife had a D and C performed yesterday and that was all ok, but now there is feeling of sadness that is with us both... about the possibilities of what could have been and now what!!!! Life can be so cruel and there are people that smoke drink and they drop them out like litters and we try for one and this happens.... Yep I am angry about the whole thing. I dont know how my wife is feeling...all I can be is supportive and be there for her, but I also feel so helpless.... Is there any advice that anyone can pass on...anything at all that is going to help her..or is this a time thing and with time heals all wounds.
At no point can I say what it feels to have a loss like this..having something that is part of you for sometime then taken away. I just want to heal my wifes broken heart.
Again apologies if I have a/ offended anyone and b/ rambled too much