I hope you all had wonderful Xmas's with your families etc!
I just thought i would pop in to give you an update on what is happening...
The kids have been really erratic and all over the place, not sleeping at night properly and being complete monsters during the day, but I can't blame them! I am just trying to be as patient as possible etc
It has been really hard, but we ended up having a nice Xmas Day, DH, was with us in the morning so we were all together with the kids, to watch them open presents etc etc etc....he went back to his place that night and we haven't heard from him since! Since we separated he hasn't gone more than a day without seeing them! So I have found this strange, but thought it is probably good, because seeing him constantly is really difficult!
I went down the shops yesterday to get some things for dinner (and a bottle of wine for me ) and to get there I had to drive past his place/office!
Well, guess who's car was parked out the front????
Yes it was HER car, she has personalised number plates so it was easy to see. I wasn't even thinking about it! But her car is so obvious! Silly woman! I am not sure how I am going to deal with it or if I am going to confront them about it!
But I am starting to see the many lies and I am wondering how many more there are to come! It makes me feel silly I didn't recognise what was happening, but how could I? I thought we were prefectly happy! I just can't believe it!
One minute, one hour, one day and one week at a time! I know I will get there!