I just wanted to encourage you all, as I know how hard this time of the year is when all you want is a baby! I have been there believe me! After 4 years of IVF, 14 cycles, 2 ectopic pregnancy's, 1 miscarriage and the loss of a triplet, plus near death experience upon labour due to severe pre-eclamsia that saw me nearly bleed to death before a hysterectomy was needed, then spending 16 days in hospital 8 of which were in intensive care, I can most certainly relate to those of you who have been trying for a long time. I can remember only all to clearly how my heart used to break as the year came to a close and I would feel like another year had passed and I still wasn't pregnant. Not to mention watching all my friends with their babies and children share in the excitement of Christmas. I know it's hard.
Good news is, good things come to those who wait! I can testify to that one as all my patience, tears, sadness, longing did finally see me blessed doubly with twins! Remember, it's not just about getting our dream bubbas but also about the journey. "have a listen to Miley Cyrus's song "the Climb". Sends me to tears every time! Everything you are going through right now is building character, perseverence and strength in you. At least now that I reflect on my journey I can see that now.
Hang in there, there the perfect embryo just waiting to be discovered and I truely believe that God has predestined your little one ahead of time and only he knows when their conception and birth will take place.
I am so thankful to now be celebrating my very first Christmas with my twin baby boy's. Their smiles, their laughter, their cuddles, makes everything I went through so worth it. If I had to do it all over again I would!
All my love