Hi everyone, it's me BabelFish just out of retirement for a bit.
DS has had chicken pox, quite badly. His rash appeared about two weeks ago.
Yesterday, DD (who is 29 months old and has had her first CP vaccine) complained of being tired all morning, and then had a 4.5 hour sleep in the afternoon.
This morning, she has about eight little red spots on her tummy, back and neck and one on her cheek.
It is our wedding in four days (this Friday).
There will be three people with babies under 18 months old coming, and bringing their babies.
If she does have it, she will no longer be contagious by Friday unless she is touched directly.
I will be telling everyone that she has it (of course!) but what would YOU do if it was you bringing a baby? Would you still come and just not go anywhere near her? Or would you stay at home?
I'm devastated, really. This has been the worst year EVER for us and to have these people not come to our wedding would break my heart. They are dear friends, and in fact one of them is my bridesmaid.
I'd NEVER hide it and will be making sure they all know. But wow.
What would you do in their situation?