Yes, I saw the IVF counsellor the week before last, 2 days after ET. I made the appt the afternoon following ET when I recognised that the stress hadn't eased after a good night's sleep. Even she knew that you were supposed to have blasts on d5. She didn't offer any coping skills that I wasn't already implementing, but she did give me permission to cry anywhere-anytime, and said if the cycle was going to work then being upset wouldn't make it fail.
And then she phoned last week to check on me. In answer to one of my questions she told me then that commencing antidepressants in order to be able to cope with doing another cycle was OK and to see my GP to arrange it. So if she prescribes any I'll only be on them short term. Either until a BFP, or until we use up our final two cycles. But since they take about 6 weeks to kick in, I'll need to start them soon if we're going to do another cycle as crappy as all the previous ones.