Hi to all you lovely Mums (and Dads),
I hit rock bottom yesterday after getting another BFN and I really need your help to get me out of the negative mind set I'm in.
Our naturopath has said that whats going on in our mind affects our fertility just as much as whats going on in our bodies. I know I need to stop thinking from the perspective of what we LACK ie/ 'our lives are empty because we don't have a baby'. And start thinking from a perspective of what we HAVE. Its just alot easier said than done...
I'd like to make a list of all the things DH and I should be thankful for, and should take advantage of while we still can, with the idea that doing all those things will keep us in good spirits and give us something to look forward to. Life as we know it will cease to exist when we do get our little miracle, so this will be a 'bucket list' so to speak.
Please tell me about the big sacrifices you've made, and what you miss most about your 'life before kids'. Or even the things you do when you're able to get a babysitter and have the 'night off'.
Thanks so much in advance!