My little one who has just turned one is quite a drama queen like her mother! She is very highly strung and a real mummys girl!! Yesterday she threw her first tantrum! She just sat there and screamed a shrill high pitch yell, red face, tears the works!! She wanted to be carried (she wants this alot lately!).. the question is how do I stop the tantys before they become an everyday affair! I feel that because she cant communicate yet she gets frustrated and has no other way of letting me know when she needs something.. am I just making excuses? How do you deny a gorgeous baby a cuddle when they need it? Am I creating a monster?