Daisy, You are not alone, I think most of us would've felt overwhelmed at our first FS appt. I know I spent most of mine trying not to cry, I couldn't believe I was actually having to have this conversation and I took little in. I'm sorry I don't know the specifics of your situation but I would recommend getting all the testing you can prior to starting IVF, so you might want to ask FS about what he recommends for your situation for both you and your DH. Also what kind of treatment would he likely be recommending for you? If you want some ideas of specific testing to ask for there is a wealth of information among this amazing group of women and everyone here would be able to help with that... and yes good idea to ask how to contact FS (directly by phone or email) with questions you may have after the consultation.
Slinky, thanks gorgeous
PinkB, meant to say, great to hear you will be starting again soon, will be really interested to hear what kind of protocol you will be doing with new tricks on the table