The only tests I think I will acceed to is an ultrasound later to make sure everything is ok being as it's my first and my man needs convincing. I know my body really well and I trust it completely. It has never led me wrong before. I will probably go see a midwife too a check up or two, once again to help my other half feel better. I think that the reason births were so dangerous back in the day was a lack of proper food and living conditions rather than birth being inherrently dangerous. Poor women couldnt afford proper food and rich women were always sick from stupid clothing choices and never going outdoors.
I hate going to doctors or hospitals so I will be opting for as little interferrence as possible. Congrats ladies on standing by your choices and trusting yourselves.