Sorry about all the confusion, I just said young and single to give you a bit of a back ground, I wasn't making any judgement on young single mothers as I was one myself. Anyway the lady i thought was the mum was actually the sister, the mum is in her 40s and has a partner. The oldest boy I initially thought as about 4 because he was so small, even now he doesn't look any older than 5.
AND I have new updates, after my last post, the father was found there again, DCP kicked the mother out and the sister had sole custody, she was doing a pretty good job too, then the sisters boyfriend severely assaulted the sister and put her in hospital. The boys have now been removed and have been put into foster care for a minimum of 2 years, I feel so sad for all the children involved, and I will really miss those boys! I wonder if DCP will let me see them? The mother is back in the house living with the man who abused her children, she chose her man over her own kids, obviously she has some psychological and emotional problems but still after all of her actions I really dislike her!