Hi there! im 32 weeks pregnant and completely freaking out about becoming a mum for the first time - it sounds so stupid and selfish but i keep focusing on all the negatives a baby will bring to me and my partners lives, like the lack of sleep, how it will affect our relationship, how will i/we cope, are we ready, how it will change our lives etc- i get a sense of real panic everytime i walk past the nursery, see my growing bump or babies. Im from the uk and also very worried about coping with my family being so far away. I feel so guilty for feeling this way as i know i should be feeling so excited at this time but i really dont. Has anyone been/or is going through the same kinda thing as me? i would greatly appreciate ANY advice.