Have you had anyone be insensitive or thoughless about your loss? I've been lucky with such support generally but had a message from a friend today saying
"Hey, I've started this great new party plan selling candles and I was wondering if you could do a party for me at your house for it? I know you lost your baby last week but it would really help me out"
I haven't seen this girl for a year and a half but still know her on facebook so she knows everything that's happened and how shattered I was. I only had the d&c last Tuesday for Gods sakes... I'm still trying to find relevance in grocery shopping, clothes, cooking dinner, meeting friends, cleaning the house... party plan relevance - no way!