I too am overweight & pregnant with #2 - Due June 2013.
I have stalking bubhub for nearly 3 years since being pregnant with my daughter. When I fell with her I was 107kgs. I had ZERO discrimination throughout that entire pregnancy. Went through shared care until around 28 weeks when baby was measuring a few weeks behind so went into the special care program at the hospital. Again, Zero discrimination.
I am a similar weight now & just 4 weeks with #2. Reading through this forum is both scary and so heartbreaking. I am living in fear of going to the doctor now - haven't been as yet.
I really hope you all tell them to shove-it! I know I would. If I find discrimination with my current doctor then I will be hunting down the GP I used last time, even though she's 30mins drive away, she was excellent and never once "told me off" about my weight.
She spoke to me gently about healthy eating and gave me some excellent contacts for pre-natal pilates and exercise classes.
I am finding this time around, like last time my body is automatically going into healthy eating mode. I lost around 7kgs in the last pregnancy and hoping for similar this time.
Breastfeeding made me MASSIVELY put on weight - yikes! I gained around 11kgs in 6 months. So I will really have to rain myself in this time.