@DeterminedOne: you did. I remember the night sobbing in the hotel room toilet on our vacation last year and you comforted me about the donor stuff. At the time, DH wasn't keen in using donor. Remember, the movie stars analogy?
Yes, it is hard not to get jealous about those gals on the Perth thread. That's why i left (or rarely post anything). Even mentioning donor is like a taboo subject.
I hear you about all the waiting and stuff!