I haven't looked into donor eggs option. But my counsellor told me (maybe to make me feel better?) that I should be happy that it isn't my eggs problem because finding donor eggs isn't an easy task in Australia.
But of course, I hope you don't have to come down to this option!!!!! This is a darn hard journey and reality. It takes years to come to term with it. I don't feel like a closure but moving forward is the only way to make peace with it. It might be a time when I would call it quit but I am not there yet. And I wish I don't have to make that call.