To add, my DH also shows no interest in searching the internet. I am the one doing all the reading and telling him update every now and then. This somehow surprised me as he shows so much interest in his hobby that he read stuff from internet every night. It seems like a norm that women are driving the fertility journey and guys just come along the ride.
In a way, by reading all posts etc I have prepared myself mentally from the start that donor might be what we might end up. Everything comes out as a shock. DH is one step at a time person.