ABWW - Hello!!! So over the moon that you are in here and that you are so far along - I literally have tingles for you! .
SD78 - How are you going? Hopefulandwaiting hit the nail on the head, you just need to have faith in bub. I also didn't relax and bond with Miss Z until after she was born. Be kind on yourself and I know it's so easy to say 'don't worry' but in reality it is going to happen. Allow yourself to feel those emotions, there is no right/wrong way to feel about it all.
AFM - I'm a little bit more settled today, I thought this time around I'd feel different, but finding myself not wanting to connect too much just in case. I know that nature will take its own course and no amount of worrying/not worrying will change a single thing. I just need to keep hoping for a boring uneventful pregnancy.