Hi and welcome Jaci! Congrats on ur BFP. Sorry to hear about ur loss....
I think we all are very nervous and dont want to really trust what the doctors say at the beginning of a new pregnancy after a loss.... and i think thats only natural
My only advice is to try and break the early stages up...I done Things like, See GP/OB, ask for a referral to a scan at around 8wks (U Should see a HB flickering away) which is a great relief!! Most Docs like to see u 4weekly, not sure about urs, but that would mean an app around 10wks, Then ud be able to get a referal for 12wk scan/bloods.
U could throw in things like, a lunch or dinner out with the girls one week, Movie with DP/DH another week. Just things to break it to smaller milestones and take ur mind off the big picture....I also know Other girls had regular blood tests, just to make sure their HCG lvls were rising... and some extra scans - lucky ducks!!
Anyway enough rambling, I hope this bubba is a healthy sticky one and u have a boring, uneventful 34weeks ahead of u!