Im crashing as I want to see more positve love coming
Im due 19th dec and was wanting vbac this time, but as so close to x-mas and the fact my 1st c-section was awesome, I am leaning towards a c-section. But of course havnt told anyone especially my Mum as will get the normal negative stuff ("Mum you had 5 pd babies compared to my nearly 9 pds and you have had numerous bladder surgeries resulting from vb's" - sorry vent!!)
I had emergency c-section with ds1, after 24 hrs of labour and I was very calm and open to getting the baby here healthy. A lot came down to my ob (who is private) who just keep saying every visit "ohhh thats a big baby" as im 5ft 2 and dh is 6ft 4, ds took after him and I was HUGE!!! So in a way I think he had me prepared that I might need a c-section.
I will post later my story but even a few gf's after seeing me having a c-section and the positives have gone down the c-section route and I feel blessed that I have opened there mind to looking at all the possibilites not just what is expected of them