WERE HOME !!!! Well wed nite went to bed & woke at 2:30am with a cramp in my foot & heartburn (usual stuff) so was tossing n turning struggling to settle both then had a bloomp feeling down below & thought ohhh need to go the loo too... while heading for loo hobbling, thought i dont leak?? WTF ?? So went to toilet in the dark,wiped & looked at paper & all i could see was colour on white loo paper.... heart sank,turned light on & holy hell blood was everywhere..... i nearly collapsed.Woke dh & realised id bled in bed as well.... so rushed to hospy & arrived crying,shaking like a leaf.After complete rest they did a internal & said i had a golf ball clot yet to come out & ALOT of blood.So stayed in birth suite till lunchtime thurs being monitored then transferred to maternity ward... so after many very scary talks with OB's,neo natal head nurses etc... total bedrest unless for the toilet for me bubbies were givem a 30% survival rate but they are a great size for there gestation being 600 & 500g so far... they had no isses with them.So finally got told yesterday my placenta has moved up with my uterus & split so caused the bleed.It will re-attach & hopefully have no clot underneath it.I will experience excruiating pain if it has a clot.So after being monitored closely for 3 days with no further bleeding only old brown sludge coming out...Im allowed to come home until a further bleed, contractions, membranes break as im not out the woods cause even though it was a placenta bleed my cervix is going to give way any time now.So total lounge arrest/bedrest for me.Am not allowed to do anything only go to loo.Im home & am very scared to be honest...(feel anxiously sick) dh has been fantastic & hes very worried.Bubs are doing great our little lily girl HATES the doppler,kicks away from it everytime.The staff all laughed & would come to watch,she'd be resting totally then once that doppler was attched boom she kick & kick to try & get away from it.She's still head down... hasnt moved since scan last tues & hes still laying sideways so we found them easily everytime(3hrly),they havent got enough room to change much position now.Staff were really happy with them but hoping i can keep them in for at least another 4 weeks min... so thats my goal.Were getting a housecleaner as im not allowed to do anything.So under strict instructions.... bedrest or lounge,not allowed to rub my belly- only touch on /touch off,not to run even cream into it, not allowed to touch my nipples in anyway,no sex,no O's for me.... told the dr's there taking away all my fun geez...im not allowed to do anything that will stimulate my uterus & make it start contracting.
Hospital staff were all so lovely.... very caring so that side doesnt scare me now.We were meant to be taken on a tour of the neo natal ward but Ob said no not allowed out of bed Was nice back on the maternity ward listening to the newborns crying much better then listening to screaming woman in labour upstairs... that was off putting.
I seriously hope this doesnt happen to anyone as it was the scariest night of my life..... & dh's.