Thank you 8isenough! yes it can very overwhelming at times. Though i have a lot of people i could i ask for help, i feel guilty asking. i do try feeding them at the same time too but my little Hunter has a set of lungs on him and can get very ear piercing at times. I love them to bits and would not change it for the world, i guess i am readjusting to be a new mum again after a 10 year gap.