Tired - seems like you have been having some issues with miss DS18. I always worry about having a teenage daughter as I was a right pain in the you know what. I did not do anything bad but I gave my mum a truck load of attitude.NOTHING she said would satisfy me but now I look back and see she said what she said was for my own good. Although, I never would have believed her when she said, “You will thank me later”.NOW I know she knew what she was talking about and she was not trying to punish me. She was just telling me things to keep me safe and to teach me to be a good person. Teenagers think they are invincible and nothing bad will happen to them. I am glad you got to get away and free your mind. Rave all you like. I am sure many people here would understand the trials of teenagers. I hope things are looking up there. WE are back to IVF again next year so we can hold each other’s hands hopefully.
Must - well the drums are here and I regret it already. Luckily they are digital and he can wear headphones so I don’t have to hear it. I just do not understand why they need crap like that. I guess he is right when he says he does not understand why I need limited edition makeup and handbags. I guess it makes sense. Boys love what they love and girls are into a whole different world of gifts!! I am getting an Ipad for Xmas too so I am excited about that. I thought they were a waste of money but I tend to use my PSP a lot when I am on planes so it could come in handy. How was the scan today???Do tell all.
Iris - my sister’s feet were HUGE when she was UTD and I am in no way looking forward to that as I love my heels! Keep those footsies up and resting.
Gem - the TWW is sheer trauma. I have been there MANY times and it always starts out with bliss, thinking this is it! Then your mind wanders. Best of luck for Monday my love. Thinking of you.
Pls - I agree with Must. I too have heard that putting them in the same cot boosts them. I guess they shared a womb after all. It might provide some comfort to them. I don’t know anything about having babies so I really should not offer advice. I hope things are getting better and better on your end. I wish you a very happy Xmas with lotsa great progress.
AFM…..well do NOT go into Cotton On kids and see all the GORGEOUS little girl tutus and outfits as it will only make you depressed. I am such a loser I cried in Cotton On Kids the other day as I was in love with the outfits and started wondering when I will be able to buy them. Xmas is the hardest time when you cannot conceive. I have been blubbing a lot since December first. What bothered me even more was I went to my work Xmas party and ex-colleagues (who I despise mind you) asked when bubs is due?? WHAT???? I am not with a belly and I am smaller than all of them so why would they say that? I know one did it on purpose as he knows how much I hate him and his wife lost a baby last year. I find out later that he did it intentionally as they cannot have kids and he knows we have been having IVF and they cannot afford it. Is it my fault?? I know all of this as I complained to my boss and she confronted him and this is what the jerk told her.He said he was annoyed that we were paying for IVF when they cannot afford it. There are so many words for people like him. I was holding back the tears at the party and DH and my friend’s hubby had to calm me down.I did tell him to go somewhere else in no lady like terms. I seriously wanted to spit in his face. My friend’s hubby was going off his head and telling everyone he was so disgusted that he did that to me in front of everyone. The guy that did it is a male chauvenist pig who used to abuse me and my colleague as we earn more than him and he felt that “Women should clean the toilet and should earn less than men” His words, not mine. I shoulda smacked him one. I wanted to but it was not the time nor place. My friend went up to him and got her revenge so I guess it all worked out. To think I felt so sorry for them.Sorry for the rant (yet again) but I just do not understand why people are so vindictive and nasty. We are in the same boat so why would they want to be so horrible???GRRRRRR I am so angry at them.