As for your scan, your middie is right - follow what you feel. I am having two scans for my pregnancy, the morph scan and an early scan. I'm only having the latter just because I miscarried last time and I am beside myself with worry, I want to make sure everything is okay in there. But I want to wait long enough so that I don't have an internal scan done. Btw at 12 weeks, they should def be doing a transabdominal scan on you. Let us know how it all goes.
Your DS sounds gorgeous by the way
How did your meeting with the IM go?
Good luck with finding a middie and congratulations on your pregnancy!
AFM: No real news on the midwife front for me, there is one I am really interested in (several people have recommended her), however I don't think she services the city area I'm waiting to hear back from her. It's really quite difficult to secure a midwife when the location of our residence remains unclear.