Some people!!!! - Boy Jox will give her a complex?!

[RoarsomeMum]

Man... TT set back a few steps thanks to a mouthy relo..

Roar was doing waaaaaaaaaay better at tt after taking her in and buying her (at her choice, well, actually, insistance!) Diego Jocks. - She loves him and has been trying really hard to make sure he does not get wet

Till her relo said in front of her, OMG She will grow up with a complex, or worse, a PENIS!

Roar being the person she is, soaked it all in.. Now she refuses to wear Undies cause she, In her words, "No want complex or penis"

She was soooooooooooooo Excited to show off that she was a "big girl in undies now" and now seems to think it is something to be ashamed of - something bad..


What the Hell was she thinking!!!!!!

How can I fix it? Have tried explaining in a few ways but she just shuts down and starts screaming "NO PENIS! NO COMPLEX!" - It's heartbreaking..

So Blimmin Angry at the person who started it too..

Any help appreciated..

[LilMissnBoo]

Oh dear...

Gosh I would be blardy annoyed at your relo! TT is so hard, and when you find something that helps make it easier, you just stick to it.

Have no advice, hopefully someone comes along to help you out.

[PacmansMum]

I haven't even hit the tt stage yet so I can't really offer advice.. I just wanted to say what a rude relative !

I truly hope you find something to get your DD back on track.

Perhaps you wash them with her watching or something and say something like 'now they are washed they are all better' ?

Goodluck !

[missie_mack]

Hmm what if you bought the traing pants that are plain from Best and less and got a diego iron on patch to put on them? Try for a hot pink pair or something to make them entirely different

[1+1=5]

N had an accident at daycare and he was sent home with the cutest pink undies...he loved them . I had a giggle but it never occured to me that his penis would drop off .

i would persist with her and keep telling her that girls can't grow penises, that the relo was just being silly. Maybe tell her that she is so lucky to have Diego undies, that they are too small for you and you would love to wear them. What ever works for her....my kids are easy to trick

[7rugrats]

Seriously...some people are so rude and should really keep their stupid opinions to them selves

[Baldie's Mum]

em, this is going to sound crazy....as she is so spongy, talk to her about how you cant grow a penis and complexes come from other peoples stupidity. Get this relative and tell them to come over and tell roar that they were being VERY silly and saying silly things and they were joking.

I would be FUMING!!!

I dont even like when BIL tells his GF's 5yr old son "crying like a little girl again???"

[CazHazKidz]

I agree with Baldies. The relative did the damage, make THEM fix it! Get them to tell Roar they were being silly, and she looks absolutely beautiful in her new undies.

[RoarsomeMum]

Getting R to come over apologise and tell her she was being silly is a great idea!!!!!! I never thought of that! Thanks AIns!

I know she meant no harm, but has a horrible case of speaking before thinking and definitely does not realise how idolized she is by Roar.. How every little thing she says and does is right and wonderful!

I hope the setback is not long, and I hope I can trust R to apologise without accidentally saying something else than makes it worse or more confusing.

A Peek down the Nappy and proudly declaration of "nup, STILL no penis" is becoming her catch cry.

[FionaV]

I'd be really annoyed with the person who said that. There is very little difference between boy and girl knickers at that age, except for the characters (and I personally think the boy ones are better made). It makes no difference whatever.

But I'm the mother of the little girl who, twenty years ago, trained in Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtle undies (boys only, of course). Her penis hasn't grown yet.