You are very right it is our body and what it is doing is amazing but damn it's hard.
I also tend to think that I will not forget any of it like 50 million people tell me. They are not me and are not experiencing it. Some of those women have forgotten what It is like too as it has been a long time. Sometimes I get the feeling ppl push the guilt trip on me because they went down a different path and expect me to follow and are somewhat regretful of their own decisions.
My dh and I are the type of ppl who will be very involved in their childs life. Why would you have kids if you didn't want to be a part of their life? Being a lobe child does not mean the child will be lonely.