I'm sure other women experience this, but everywhere i turn i seem to get the question 'so when will you have your next?'
I just had my DS 6 months ago!
When my husband and I talked kids, we never discussed a number.
Now that I have had one I realise that I am totally content with just the one.
People tell me all time time I will change my mind.
Not to mention all the other crap they say!
My own sister told me last night (she has 2 teenagers) that she has never known a nice only child and that they are normally less smart than children with siblings! I mean FFS, come on!!!
Another one I have heard is that we don't have a real family until we have 2+ kids. This lovely one came from my DH!! So what have I got? A fake family? lol (he didn't have an answer for that).
I really don't want anymore children. There is no desire in me for anymore. I love my little boy so much and financially one is more sensible for us.
Not to mention I had a terrible pregnancy, and disasterous birth!
Why can't everyone around me accept that?
The only person I am willing to MAYBE compromise with, is my hubby.
People can be so insensitive sometimes!
Thanks for letting me vent!