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    Quote Originally Posted by Ezekielsmum View Post
    Hi Girls,
    It has been a long time since I have been in here. Found everything just getting too much for me. Have been seeing an Obgyn to see if they can work out why we have been trying for over 15 months with no successful pregnancy. Blood tests showed this month I didn't even O, funny thing though, did a hpt this morning and got a BFP, am terrified...have had some spotting and cramping & am not very confident this is going to be a sticky one...hope you don't mind me just dropping in with no personals...just scared and needed to share...
    Yay for a BFP. Do another one just to make sure and then go the doctors and ask for a BT. that it's good news for you.

    Quote Originally Posted by matalee View Post
    Hopeful - I agree unexplained infertility is so frustrating. I'm starting to think that I also have a clotting disorder as well (Dr Google is such a handy thing, huh). I'll ask for those tests as well. Your appointment is soon isn't it? Hope you get the answers you want.

    Hi everyone else
    It is. I think that if i'd had some answers i'd be handleing it a lot better than I am now. I'm upset, frustrated, angry, annoyed and everything else in between. And then a friend or family member says their UTD and it's like twisting the dagger in deeper. It's such a horrible feeling. My appointment is on the 15th. So hope it's good news that I hear.

    Quote Originally Posted by Catkin View Post
    That's it, I'm officially terrified. I'm 6DPO and I've been nauseous even to the point of throwing up once for the last few days. My boobs hurt, I've got a nose like a bloodhound again and I'm so tired everything hurts and I'm unconsious by half 8 every night (not me at all normally). Just like last time only even worse. DH is making jokes about be being as fertile as a rabbit... I didn't even need to say anything to him, he knew too. It's gone past the point of me being able to believe it's just psychosomatic into omg territory.

    The thing is that I'm only 4 weeks past a d&c and I just don't see how it can stick past the first AF time so I'm utterly utterly depressed. Then I feel bad for being depressed about it when I should be happy but I can't be happy as I don't see the point
    Go the doctors and get a BT. It will put your mind at ease so you're not all panicy. I really do hpe that things work out for you.

    Hi to the rest of you ladies. Hope you had a great day.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Hopefulmum2b View Post
    Go the doctors and get a BT. It will put your mind at ease so you're not all panicy. I really do hpe that things work out for you.

    Thats just the thing. It can't tell me anything I don't already know, and will just consolidate the panic as I'm not worried about being utd (i'd be delighted if it wasn't so close to the d&c), I'm unhappy and depressed that it's happened so fast that I don't see how it can last through the first 4 weeks. If, by some act of God, it does stay put I will be ecstatic but I cannot get my hopes up. Thank you for the hugs!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Catkin View Post
    Thats just the thing. It can't tell me anything I don't already know, and will just consolidate the panic as I'm not worried about being utd (i'd be delighted if it wasn't so close to the d&c), I'm unhappy and depressed that it's happened so fast that I don't see how it can last through the first 4 weeks. If, by some act of God, it does stay put I will be ecstatic but I cannot get my hopes up. Thank you for the hugs!
    Oh Sweetheart. All I want to do right now is come over and give you a big hug. You poor thing. It would be so hard for you right now. At a time like this you should be on top of the world, but having al sorts of thoughts and emotions going through your head must be aweful. I guess right now it's in the hands of God and only he can decide whether he is going to bless you with a little one after cruely taking away your last. I hope this time he does. I'm sending you lots of good luck, and for you Babe.

    If you want to talk, just PM me okay.

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    Catkin- i know all to well the depressed feeling after loss and d&c...i fell pg the first time on the pill...but lost it and had a d&C without af i fell pregnant for the 2nd time...and lost that bub but it was due to a chromosomal abnormality...i was always worried it was because i got pg too soon...however without another af i fell pg again for the 3rd time...and this pg has been 'normal' and perfecrt...however in the back of my mind i freaked out not having af before...but i went to a specialist who told me our bodies are amazing things and we would not fall pg if it werent ready to...if you are utd know that it wont mean a definite mc you have as much chance of a perfect pg as anyone else....some people say if uve had a mc u have a high % of having another one...this is just NOT TRUE!!!

    I hope ive kinda given you some insight into my story...no1 can tell you how to feel...alot of the time drs tell us to wait 1-3 af because of emotional reasons for us not being ready...and maybe this is how you r feeling now...but know so many women are going through or have gone through what you are and you r not alone!
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    Quote Originally Posted by matalee View Post
    Ezekielsmum - congratulations on your BFP, I can understand you being so nervous. Most times spotting doesn't mean that anything is wrong though. Can you ring your obgyn & see if they suggest anything. I know with my last pg my dr put me on progesterone & steroid tablets to support the pg as a precaution.

    Hopeful - I agree unexplained infertility is so frustrating. I'm starting to think that I also have a clotting disorder as well (Dr Google is such a handy thing, huh). I'll ask for those tests as well. Your appointment is soon isn't it? Hope you get the answers you want.

    Hi everyone else
    Thanks Matalee - had an appt with the Obgyn on Thursday...it was about TTC, so we sat down and she told me my body seems to have a mind of its own, and is doing its own thing and it looks like i didn't O this month. I told her that was funny seeing I had just gotten a BFP. I would say she was nearly speechless..she took some blood on thur and I had another this morning, so she is going to ring me monday with the results. She didnt seem to positive about bubs being sticky due to the low progesterone during ovulation, plus a drop that was shown in the day 26 bloods...but we will see i suppose...she seemed very reluctant to prescribe progesterone..and was going to talk to a FS about it first.

    Quote Originally Posted by KazzyC View Post
    BFP!!!!!! I can't believe it!

    This has to be a sticky one...I can't have 3 losses in a year!
    Congratulations KazzyC!!
    Sending you lots of sticky vibes!

    Quote Originally Posted by Hopefulmum2b View Post
    Yay for a BFP. Do another one just to make sure and then go the doctors and ask for a BT. that it's good news for you.



    It is. I think that if i'd had some answers i'd be handleing it a lot better than I am now. I'm upset, frustrated, angry, annoyed and everything else in between. And then a friend or family member says their UTD and it's like twisting the dagger in deeper. It's such a horrible feeling. My appointment is on the 15th. So hope it's good news that I hear.



    Go the doctors and get a BT. It will put your mind at ease so you're not all panicy. I really do hpe that things work out for you.

    Hi to the rest of you ladies. Hope you had a great day.



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    Thanks Hopefulmum2B..i did another HPT this morning, and it was quite a bit darker than Thursdays, so am thinking maybe that is a positive...am getting some yukky cramps tonight though..so a bit stressed..

    The positive side to all this I suppose, even if bubs doesnt stick is that she has recognised that I have a progesterone issue and will put me on clomid next cycle to boost ovulation and my natural progesterone..

    Hope everyone is well. It is amazing that what we are all made to think is simple (getting pregnant) is one of the hardest things of all...

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    Quote Originally Posted by TSG2011 View Post
    Catkin- i know all to well the depressed feeling after loss and d&c...i fell pg the first time on the pill...but lost it and had a d&C without af i fell pregnant for the 2nd time...and lost that bub but it was due to a chromosomal abnormality...i was always worried it was because i got pg too soon...however without another af i fell pg again for the 3rd time...and this pg has been 'normal' and perfecrt...however in the back of my mind i freaked out not having af before...but i went to a specialist who told me our bodies are amazing things and we would not fall pg if it werent ready to...if you are utd know that it wont mean a definite mc you have as much chance of a perfect pg as anyone else....some people say if uve had a mc u have a high % of having another one...this is just NOT TRUE!!!

    I hope ive kinda given you some insight into my story...no1 can tell you how to feel...alot of the time drs tell us to wait 1-3 af because of emotional reasons for us not being ready...and maybe this is how you r feeling now...but know so many women are going through or have gone through what you are and you r not alone!
    x
    I was in the same boat. I was too sacre to try even though we got the okay from the doctor. But only your body can tell you if bub will stick or not. No doctor can predict what is exactly happening inside us. Everyone of us is different. But you stressing out like that will definitely not help the situation. You have to let nature take it's course now. If it's meant to be it's meant to be. But I really do hope and pray that this one is meant to be.

    Quote Originally Posted by Ezekielsmum View Post
    Thanks Hopefulmum2B..i did another HPT this morning, and it was quite a bit darker than Thursdays, so am thinking maybe that is a positive...am getting some yukky cramps tonight though..so a bit stressed..

    The positive side to all this I suppose, even if bubs doesnt stick is that she has recognised that I have a progesterone issue and will put me on clomid next cycle to boost ovulation and my natural progesterone..

    Hope everyone is well. It is amazing that what we are all made to think is simple (getting pregnant) is one of the hardest things of all...
    That's great that your HPT line is darker. That's definitely a good sign. Don't stress about the cramps just yet. As long as there is no bleeding, you should be okay.

    But it's great that you have an upside if it's not sticky, but keep a positive outlook. You never know what might happen.

    I know. We spend our youth trying to NOT fall PG and now we're doing everything in our power to be PG. How the world changes as we get older.

    Hope everyone is enjoying their sunday and has a great week.

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    Ezekielsmum Congratulations on your positive. Best of luck for an uneventful 9 months and a healthy bub.

    KazzyC Congratulations on your result too. I hope that you have a happy healthy and sticky bub this time around.

    AJGirl08 I know how frustrating it is for you when your cycle tries to play silly buggers. I am sick of my doing that too.

    PA80 Sorry that your AF showed up I hope that next month is your month.

    Hopefulmum2b Sorry that AF is such a witch to you. I hope that she leaves very soon and that you will have your positive result next month.

    AFM I had to go to a Employment Medical the other day and the doctor there notice that I appear to have a goiter. So now my DH and I are wondering if this is why I have been tired, moody, having trouble getting (and staying) pregnant and a list of other things too. I have made an appointment with our GP to get it checked. Yesterday we had our 18 month old nephew visit, I had so much fun with him but then once he left (and all of today) I have been feeling really down. We had to go and do some shopping today and at one point I just wanted to sit down in the middle of the shop and cry. I don't really know why I am feeling like this. I have had a couple of instances of spotting late yesterday (and today) which I am not happy about in the slightest as AF is not due for at least 2 more weeks and I hope that she doesn't decide to show up early again.

    Hi to anyone I have missed and it is good to see that we are getting a few more these days too lets hope they keep coming and that they are sticky babies.

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    Thank you all I do feel better for what you've told me, and I really really needed some positivity. It would appear that I've no trouble becoming pregnant so, even if I do loose this one too, at least I can try again quickly!

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    Hey girls

    Thought i would pop in and say hi!

    Ezekielsmum and KazzyC congrats on your bfp's! Fingers crossed everything turns out well

    Jazz.. good to hear you might finally get some answers. Hopefully you will and a gorgeous bub is on the way for you xx

    Hi to everybody else! Hope everybody is staying healthy and getting closer to a super sticky bub xxx

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    Quote Originally Posted by jazz1910 View Post
    Hopefulmum2b Sorry that AF is such a witch to you. I hope that she leaves very soon and that you will have your positive result next month.

    AFM I had to go to a Employment Medical the other day and the doctor there notice that I appear to have a goiter. So now my DH and I are wondering if this is why I have been tired, moody, having trouble getting (and staying) pregnant and a list of other things too. I have made an appointment with our GP to get it checked. Yesterday we had our 18 month old nephew visit, I had so much fun with him but then once he left (and all of today) I have been feeling really down. We had to go and do some shopping today and at one point I just wanted to sit down in the middle of the shop and cry. I don't really know why I am feeling like this. I have had a couple of instances of spotting late yesterday (and today) which I am not happy about in the slightest as AF is not due for at least 2 more weeks and I hope that she doesn't decide to show up early again.

    Hi to anyone I have missed and it is good to see that we are getting a few more these days too lets hope they keep coming and that they are sticky babies.
    Thanks Jazz. AF has long gone. Just disappointed that DH comes home probably 2 days after I O, so that's this cycle out for us. It sucks when he's away and i'm laying an egg. How other women who have DH's working away and still get UTD is beyond me. I wish I was one of them

    Hope they can sort that problem out for you soon.

    I know how you feel. I had to babysit my niece and nephew saturday night and as I was tucking them into bed my niece says "I love you" so I said I love you back, and then my nephew from his room yelled out, "No I love you more". I left both of their rooms and burst into tears just wondering if i'm ever going to have that. Am I ever going to hear my son or daughter say, "I love you mum."? It broke my heart.

    Quote Originally Posted by Catkin View Post
    Thank you all I do feel better for what you've told me, and I really really needed some positivity. It would appear that I've no trouble becoming pregnant so, even if I do loose this one too, at least I can try again quickly!
    That's what we're here for Cat. It's good that you don't have a problem falling PG. Wish it would happen to me. I'm glad that you're feeling a little bit more positive now.

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