JaxM- Thx for your thoughts, and without being rude, I hope I'm not here TTC for too long also! And hope the same for all of you gals.
Yeah, I have lost a fair bit of faith in doctors, and although I'm not angry at her, I never want to see her again. I believe my boy didn't have to die, and could have been saved if A) the sonographer stopped big-noting himself and took some notice while doing my scan two weeks earlier, B) my doctor had taken a bit more notice of my increasing BP and my concerns a week before he died. It just sucks that he had to die for me to find out I was in the wrong hands. But hopefully now I wont be pushed around and blown off, and will get a dr who gives a .......
The seasaw is totally normal, I'm sure we've all been through that, it goes up & down severly in the beginning, then the bumps begin to slowly smooth out a little. Give yourself and your mind time to get used to the shock. Take good care of yourself, and enjoy those wines Its early days for you & your DH, and must be extra hard with him having to be away at this time.
AJ- you crack me up! I hope all that BDing lands you UTD with a BFP in the coming weeks!
Anyone else using maybe baby?
I used it when we conceived DS#1, and find it easy to predict O, but not sure how it reacts when early pg??? I'm pretty sure I O cd10, (a bit earlier than predicted) and think I may be UTD but not sure...too early to test. I'm now cd20, and expect it to be about a 25-27day cycle, and had some ferns appear yesterday, and heaps today....so now I don't know...am I UTD / about to get AF early (doubt it) or am I O now? Would it fern up if I am Pg?