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    Default TTC after miscarriage testing thread #3

    Well there is still no sign of my AF. I think I will test again this weekend and if I still get a negative then I will have to go see my doctor me thinks.

    So how is everyone else going anyone about to test, any more positive results we don't know about yet???

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    hello again ladies

    jazz1910 - good luck with your testing. i do hope it is a BFP for you!

    martina78 - i am so sorry that you are back here but yay to be back on the ttc train again. i am sending you sticky vibes.

    TSG2011 - sorry for your loss, i was in march11 with you how much does this suck! this too is the 2nd MC for me. my dr seems to think it is just bad luck, if i have another, we go for testing. i hope you get some answers with your tests...and a very sticky bub very soon x

    AJGirl08 - god...your signature just breaks my heart. you are going to have this bub you are after...i just know it. and when you do, it is going to be just the most beautiful little perfect bubba. xx

    tasha74 - grr...people are idiots! i will be thinking of you over the next couple of weeks, this must be a very hard time for you. i hope you are having a better day today x

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    Thanks Kaz. You know it actually takes me by surprise every time I look at my signature. But you're right, we will have this baby I know it in my heart. It's just taking a little longer than I anticipated!!

    xx

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    Hey girls

    omg jazz have you re tested yet? Lol I would be testing daily!

    Kazzy so sorry you are back here *big hugs*

    Aj life seriously sucks at times but hopefully we will all get our bubs soon

    afm I'm off to the gyno tomorrow oh yay! hopefully our results from my bloods and hubbys little sample come back good. I want to throttle him at times, i get all upset and he asks why.. His so dumb lol

    hope everybody is well

    tash x

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    I have attempted to put the link to my BBt chart - if any of u have ever charted your BBT and or used fertility friend could u take a look and tell me what you think of my temps and bd timing? Pretty please.

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    Hey Martina,

    i just had a look at your chart and im no expert but from personal experience i think you ovulated earlier than your chart is pinpointing. Im thinking you may of actually O'd around day 16? Your temps after this date are quite high. Its hard for it to pinpoint the right date without a full month of temps but if you did O around day 16 it would put all ur temps above the coverline apart from maybe one. I will try posting the link to my chart last month to give you an idea of how it looks.

    http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/2c5ee4#share

    Let me know if it works, i haven't tried linking it before.

    As for your bd'ing.. looks good to me for any of the days around when you could of O'd. You have certainly been busy lol! Good luck

    tash x

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    Quote Originally Posted by tasha74 View Post
    ok i hope you ladies don't mind but i need a little vent! I feel really guilty as im stressing at ttc and feeling sorry for myself yet there are so many of you that have been trying forever with multiple losses.

    It seems everywhere i turn everybodys pregnant.. suddenly seems the in thing for everybody to be doing and i'm over it getting rubbed in my face. 2 days after my d&c a very close friend msgd me to tell me shes pregnant.. i couldn't even bring myself to reply to the msg and havent heard from her since. I then had another msg me yesterday saying.. i have a confession to make, im 6 weeks pregnant but think im miscarrying cos i spotted a bit today.. why even say anything in the first place! arrgghhh, just feels like rather than being supportive some ppl are so insensitive. I think if i see anymore pregnant women i might start kicking them all.. i already have a hatred for every one that i see... lol im horrid i know! Also annoys the hell out of me that drug addicts and the likes seem to have babies so easily and the ppl that want them so badly and deserve them have all the trouble!

    So glad i came across this forum after my loss as you are all so supportive of each other and its nice to be around others that know pain.

    I hope every single one of you get that much wanted baby very soon

    Ok sorry just needed to get that out of my system, hope nobody minds.

    Tash x

    OMG Tasha, I feel exactly the same way as you do. DH and I have been ttc for about 3 years now and i've had 3 m/c. Then my BIL got married in october and then at the end of january he tells me his mrs is up the duff! WTF! Talk about rubbing it in our faces knowing fair well that we're finding it difficult. I haven't seen them since my DH's birthday in May! I'm suppose to pretend to be happy for them. Hell no! I've never really want much in life except to find a fantastic guy, get married, have kids and live happily ever after. I know 3 out of 4 aint bad, but all i've ever wanted since i've been married (which will be 13 years this october) is to become a mum. Does that make me a mean, selfish person? Some people I tell this too think I am and the more I hear it, the more I believe it. It frustrates, upsets and makes me mad sometimes thinking about this. I cry everytime someone tells me their good news and I feel nothing but contempt. All I want is one happy, healthy baby. Is that really too much to ask?


    And I completely agree with you when you hear that druggies or what not popping out babies like it's going out of fashion!


    I'm going to have to stop soon as I can't type with all these tears. Sorry. Thank you all for listening to my banshee rant. I do feel a little better getting everything of my chest.


    I hope that you all find the strength and courage to carry on after the loss of your beautiful little ones, and that you get the wonderful bundles of joy you all truely deserve.


    And FYI Tasha, I don't mind. Rant as much as you like Hun.


    Big hugs to you all.


    Hopefulmum2b xxx

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    Hopeful if meeting someone wonderful, falling in love, deciding to spend your lives together and then have children makes you a mean and selfish person?...well then it does you, me and pretty much everyone on the planet!
    Please don't let others drag you down with their hurtful comments.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hopefulmum2b View Post
    OMG Tasha, I feel exactly the same way as you do. DH and I have been ttc for about 3 years now and i've had 3 m/c. Then my BIL got married in october and then at the end of january he tells me his mrs is up the duff! WTF! Talk about rubbing it in our faces knowing fair well that we're finding it difficult. I haven't seen them since my DH's birthday in May! I'm suppose to pretend to be happy for them. Hell no! I've never really want much in life except to find a fantastic guy, get married, have kids and live happily ever after. I know 3 out of 4 aint bad, but all i've ever wanted since i've been married (which will be 13 years this october) is to become a mum. Does that make me a mean, selfish person? Some people I tell this too think I am and the more I hear it, the more I believe it. It frustrates, upsets and makes me mad sometimes thinking about this. I cry everytime someone tells me their good news and I feel nothing but contempt. All I want is one happy, healthy baby. Is that really too much to ask?
    Hopeful I know exactly how you feel. My DH and I have been TTC for almost 4 years now. We have lost two souls. The last one would have been due at about christmas time. My SIL got married in October and then when she came to visit at Christmas time she announced she was pregnant. She has just had the baby and I know I am meant to be happy for her but I just can't, every time I think about it I want to cry. I feel like everyone is falling pregnant or having their children and I am just being left behind. I am not greedy I would be happy with just one.

    I haven't retested yet because I make sure not to keep any test in the house so that I am not tempted to keep retesting all the time as the are just too hard to look at. Having said that I am starting to thing that I will not need to retest any way as I started getting some light spotting yesterday, so I am expecting AF in the next day or so.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AJGirl08 View Post
    Hopeful if meeting someone wonderful, falling in love, deciding to spend your lives together and then have children makes you a mean and selfish person?...well then it does you, me and pretty much everyone on the planet!
    Please don't let others drag you down with their hurtful comments.
    Quote Originally Posted by jazz1910 View Post
    Hopeful I know exactly how you feel. My DH and I have been TTC for almost 4 years now. We have lost two souls. The last one would have been due at about christmas time. My SIL got married in October and then when she came to visit at Christmas time she announced she was pregnant. She has just had the baby and I know I am meant to be happy for her but I just can't, every time I think about it I want to cry. I feel like everyone is falling pregnant or having their children and I am just being left behind. I am not greedy I would be happy with just one.

    I haven't retested yet because I make sure not to keep any test in the house so that I am not tempted to keep retesting all the time as the are just too hard to look at. Having said that I am starting to thing that I will not need to retest any way as I started getting some light spotting yesterday, so I am expecting AF in the next day or so.
    Thank you so much ladies for you kind words. It means a lot to me. I'm so glad that you understand how I feel and that i'm not being judged because of them.


    I'm so over my BIL's wife's unborn baby right now. Everytime we got to my PIL's place, that topic always seems to come up. My MIL is the worst. She knows what i've been through and that the whole baby topic upsets me, but it's still said and it p*&$@! me off. I act interested, but really i'm just thinking "oh shut up will you!". But what really got me going was when she (SIL) emailed her ultrasound pics to me! Talk about rubbing salt in the wounds. Then a few months ago she asked Hubby if we wanted to see her 25 week scans or something. DH point blank said, "NO!". And I can't believe that she's asked me if we can swap clothes because she's getting bigger, i'm fat and she can now fit into my clothes! Talk about sticking the knife in and twisting it.

    But in saying that, this whole fiasco is breaking my DH's heart too. I hate the look on his face when it's mentioned or when I tell him that AF has arrived. I don't know what to do anymore. It's so difficult to try and keep a sane mind when stuff like this is happening around you. Sometimes you just want to go up to the person, slap them in the face and say, "have a bit of compassion will you!" Then again, maybe it's just me over reacting.

    And Jazz, I know exactly how you feel. How can you be happy for someone when you're gutted on the inside. My sister has 2 beautiful kids and I love them to bits, but when I found out she was UTD, I was devastated. Knowing that she fell preggers so quickly whilst we've been trying for donkies was heartbreaking. (But she did have cysts on her overies so we thought that she would never have kids). But i'm the same. At this point in time, if i'm blessed with just one baby, i'll be happy with that.

    But as for the spotting, maybe it isn't AF? Maybe some implantation spotting perhaps? Give it a few more days. You just might have some fantastic news to tell us soon. I'm going to be testing probable either tomorrow or sunday. AF should be due either today or tomorrow, so fingers crossed that she doesn't and I get my big, long awaited BFP. I'll keep you posted.


    But a HUGE thank you again, for listening to my long winded rant (again). And hopefully we'll be getting some sticky bubs real soon.

    Have a great weekend everyone.

    Hopefulmum2b xxx


 

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