Over my DF today !!

**annonymous** · 05-08-2010 12:41

I've become annonymous to post this as im embarrassed

I am so annoyed right now.
My DF has been trying to get me to be more active for agesss. I finally decided i wanted to be. I'm a size 10 but i haven't done much exercise since before DS was born.
So lastnight i went to Fernwood and became a member. I'm going to try to visit 3-4 times per, more when i can.
So i joined lastnight then came home super duper excited, everything was fine, then today DF didn't have work. I have looked over the class timetable and their is nothing i am interested in so i booked my son in for the creche tomorrow morning because i want to start off my first class with BodyBalance. My DF asked why i wasn't taking th e opportunity and going to the gym while he was home to watch DS, i responded with saying i want to start off with BodyBalance because it is lower impact and i'll start tomorrow, then he starts going off saying he knew it would be a waste of money and i'm never going to go etc, i felt like s**t after he had a go. I didn't say anything, just sat there. DS was asleep was DF was having a go at me, DF as meant to spend time with DS today but instead he grabbed the car key and left with the s**ts because i'm not going to the gym today.

I'm just sick of him making me feel like im nothing.

**SuperGranny** · 05-08-2010 12:48

hi, I think he has problems. Is he stressed about other things,?? seems like a very aggressive over reaction to you just saying you are going to the gym tomorrow not today.!! Does he treat you like this often?? I would not be staying in this relationship if this is common behaviour, or at least I would be wanting him to attend some councilling?? does he have maybe un diagnosed depression or something??? take care, Marie.

**LilMrsC** · 05-08-2010 12:54

Couldn't read without sending some

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I wish I could give you some fantastic advice.

I do want to say that I think you should be very proud of yourself....getting the courage to join a gym is not easy. I think your DF should have been far more supportive.

**OJandMe** · 05-08-2010 12:58

Nothing to say. Just hugs.

I'm over my DH too. different reasons, same club.

**waterlily** · 05-08-2010 13:09

Wow that is extremly horrible and childish. I'd tell your DF it's not on and he has to stop making you feel like crap, it's not fair!! Sorry but what a jerk.

**Baldie's Mum** · 05-08-2010 13:11

tell him that you dont tell him how to spend his days or his free time...so you dont want his opinion.

Size 10 and he wants you to work out more.....Let me sit on him and see how he likes it! Size 16 and 35 weeks pregnant.......I'll shut him up for you!

(forgot to add, and damn happy with how i look)

**anewme** · 05-08-2010 13:16

**Savingfishfromdrowning** · 05-08-2010 13:18

Originally Posted by joshcamgrandma

hi, I think he has problems. Is he stressed about other things,?? seems like a very aggressive over reaction to you just saying you are going to the gym tomorrow not today.!! Does he treat you like this often?? I would not be staying in this relationship if this is common behaviour, or at least I would be wanting him to attend some councilling?? does he have maybe un diagnosed depression or something??? take care, Marie.

Marie you are so sensible.

Originally Posted by OJandMe

Nothing to say. Just hugs.

I'm over my DH too. different reasons, same club.

Me too

**waterlily** · 05-08-2010 13:20

Originally Posted by littleAJ

Marie you are so sensible.

Me too

Marie always gives great advice.

**Bubs'n'Roses** · 05-08-2010 13:26

Maybe I'm totally wrong, but I wasn't aware a size 10 was so bad? What's with the rod up his bum about it?

Sounds like typical male over-reaction that really serves no purpose,

to you, forget him, he obviously is having issues with something. You do this your way, don't let him make you feel bad. This sounds more like his issue than your own. Last I heard size 10 was no need to be sh!tty that your wife doesnt work out.