struggling with stepson and baby to be

**jess87** · 26-07-2010 15:59

.hello i am jess i am first time mummy to be and am very excited. i am 30 wks+ and i dont want to be the person who is frowned upon for my thoughts but i was wondering if my stepson needs to be put on my babys birth certificate? i love my stepson who is 6 in november to bits dont get me wrong but since i have been pregnant i believe my views have changed and i am really dreading my stepson being involved in my babys life. he has had bursts of aggression towards other children and worry about my babys safety as he gets jealous everytime it is not him getting attention.

i have no one i know to tlk to as everyone automatically jumps to conclusions about wat i say and hope i can get some advice on here... please help me

**MordecaiAliVanAllenO'Shea** · 26-07-2010 16:05

Birth Ceritifcate only lists previous children of the relationship.

**jess87** · 26-07-2010 16:19

thank you for clarifying that with me

**missie_mack** · 26-07-2010 16:26

Give your stepson time. Some of these things need to be learnt and when you don't have ongoing access to other children it can be hard. Keep him involved and let him know what an important role being a big brother can be