why is it.. that men (and it's mostly men isn't it) feel they can just 'opt out' of life.
they feel they can just have a breakdown, be depressed, navel gaze, be selfish, spend money on themselves and not pay their csa and just generally be an ***.
why is they can just opt out.. how do they feel they can justify it.
my ex destroyed our marriage because he had 'problems' and stole all our savings. He now does his navel gazing in his own flat away from me thank god! he promises to come and 'help' with the kids.. blah blah blah.. 'oh I promise I'll be there 8.30 am to help you can go back to bed'.. whatever! twice promised and never delivered.. he just feels he can opt out of visits.. csa payments on his overdue amounts etc etc.. why? it's so bloody unfair!
I've had a bad cold all week.. feel like crap.. I had to keep going.. school runs, shopping, meal times etc. no rest or help for me! he doesn't show up because he has a 'cold' oh gez really!!! why tell me how the **** that feels ********!!! but he just doesn't care enough to follow through.. just opts out. why is it women have to keep going holding things together! does it never occur to these deadbeats that we might be tired, sore, hungry, in need of a break!???