hi there.. i have been reading about in america how it is all paid and was talking to a friend about it and they had made the suggestion of 'gifting' something to the mother as a 'labour/ birth-day' present...seems this isnt uncommon over in US either... i was not quite sure on it and was wondering what other people thought about it?
im looking for any input about it really just trying to see where i sit with it all i guess and needing a larger group of people to bounce things off of
so i guess what im asking is...
Do you think surrogates should be paid?
Do you think a 'gift' (large item) is appropriate or something that should happen?
Do you believe it should remain altruistic in all aspects?
just looking for ideas on where people are at with it im still lost lol.. look forward to hearing what you all think soon!! xox