My DD is 13 weeks old - I'm more of a go with the flow mum (I have a DS who is 3 - was a terrible sleeper as I did everything wrong according to the books). All my friends say I should be putting my baby on a routine however I do not wish to let her self settle and I do not wish to wake her from sleeping as thats just wrong. She is breastfed.
However she does catnap during the day 30 mins at a time - might do one sleep of about 2 hours. The only issue I have is she isn't in bed for the night till 9pm or even 10pm - I'm not a night person and I'm finding this hard. She does however either sleep through till 6ish or feeds around 3 and then wakes at 8am - awesome I know but I'm struggling with the late bedtime as my son can be an early riser.
Do I have to do a routine to fix this or will she just adjust over time? Was your baby a night owl and eventually start to go to bed earlier or do I need to make changes now? Not overly stressed but just thought I'd ask! I realise she is still very young but I liked having evenings to myself hehe oh and time with hubby too I suppose