No never. My cousin's ex did this...they'd only been together 3 months!!! Needless to say he was absolutely furious when he found out. They split up for a while, then got back together, but have no split up for good. My cousin loves his son but it is the kid that suffers. Because my cousin's ex didn't get to play happy families like she thought she was going to she doesn't play with her son, doesn't feed him (she has things in the cupboard that he can get himself...he's 2!) and when asked how much he loves his mum he folds his arms across his chest and put his head down. It's so so sad and I don't understand why anyone would do that. Having a baby changes your whole life, forever!