I dont think 'competently' should be the right thing to put there, isn't it kind of saying that men don't really know how to clean/look after kids/cook etc.?
My DP is awesome when it comes to all those things, especially cooking! I can cook (absolutely no doubt about that) but DP is amazing in the kitchen that i hardly ever make dinner. I have my dishes that i do, but he does a bulk of the cooking. Except for desserts, i do those and he does mains, it evens itself out
And the house work is distributed evenly. If i've been working most of the week (DP is taking time off work currently, due to injury) then he'll do alot of the housework, cos these days im drained with pregnancy tiredness and morning sickness. But if we're both home we'll do things together.
DP is definitely not one of these guys that doesn't know what a vaccuum cleaner looks like, hence why im with him