Interesting Poll it seems most of us have hubbies who help but there r a few who don't sadly. I'm lucky I married my guy he always helped out even before DD came along we were both working in very demanding jobs, I guess I tended to do more of the cooking since I came home earlier working closer to home meant I did get in the door before he did. But we shared the washing hanging taking off, I vacuumed he steam mopped, I cleaned bathrooms he mowed (since I hate mowing) He irons when he runs out of workshirts LOL & I iron because I have to. Now DD is here I am a SAHM but he still helps out, on the weekend eg hangs out washing or takes it off. I tend to clean during the week now when DD is asleep but u wldn't know once she gets out of bed the house is trashed again toys everywhere. LOL But I compare my DH to my DAD & he never helped do housework & my mum worked part-time eg 6 hrs pday plus came home and worked so she had 2 jobs. But I think things have changed now men are not so biased about what is women's work & see housekeeping as a shared role eg 2 pple live in the house so 2 people contribute to the mess so 2 people should clean & when DD is old enough she'll be picking up her toys & packing away & she's going to learn to keep her room tidy & her bed made just like I had to!