to an extent. He works 13 hour days 6-7 days a week, so the last thing he feels like doing is housework. He helps with our oldest DD (getting her ready for bed while I cook dinner etc), and sometimes he cooks. Most sundays if he isnt working he jumps on the playstation or messes around in the shed. He does help if I ask him to do something in particular, or if he can see I am struggling with the kids and getting everything done. It doesnt bother me that he doesnt do much around the house to help, he is always there when I need him emotionally and to me thats more important.