Iím a mother of 2, a 3.5 years old daughter and a 1 year old son. Iíve always wished I could have a nice, loving relationship with my one and only sibling - a brother, most of you might agree with me that a brother and sister will never be as close as sisters (please tell me that Iím wrong! ). Iím always reaching out to my brother but heís very quiet and keeps to himself all the time and doesnít want to have anything to do with me, as a result I feel hurt and alone . This is also the reason I like to have girls only, by having a son, not only do I fear that my daughter will go through what Iím going through with my brother, but as a mum I feel that once again I will also be hurt by my own son due to the lack of emotional contact ... Iím now faced with a decision whether to have another child or not Ė hopefully a girl so that my daughter can experience the joy of sisterhood .