Welcome to the forum. I joined some time ago and found it a great sense of relief to know there are others going through similar experiences.
I'm sorry to hear of your past few years and what must of been very difficult times. My husband and I also experienced several years of unsuccessful IVF attempts and a miscarriage. We then decided to go the adoption path and I have to say it was the best decision ever!
We have a beautiful daughter who is now almost two through local adoption. She continually lights up our life in a way I could never imagine all those years ago in those very dark days of IVF. I still can't believe how our lives have changed.
Feel free to get in touch if you have questions as I'm sure there will be plenty.