I'm going to ask for help here because there's noone I can talk to about this. I feel my DH is not interested in me. This has been going on for more than 2 years. I love him to death and it hurts that he always rejects me with excuses when I try to initiate intercourse. I understand that his libido may not match mine but he doesn't want to try to compromise. He's quite happy not having intercourse ever. Since we got married 4 years ago he has probably initiated things in bed 3 times, it's always been me doing it. And now that i've stopped initiating things to see what happens we havent held hands or kissed for more than a ten days it's really upsetting me. I cry about it most nights when he is asleep. I've tried talking to him but he says that it's all in my head and he always has a new excuse. I love him so much but he treats me like his best friend. I don't know what to do. I've tried so many things and i'm really hurt i keep blaming myself. Please someone help any thoughts?