i know what you girls mean by not having a connection with the baby. it is really hard, i find the movements annoy me, and most of the time if it wasnt for this fat belly i have i wouldnt feel pregnant at all. we have a name picked out, i too let my dp decide i just dont care. im having nightmares about the it being born dead, wich is freaking me out, so i guess i must care in some way about it, but i dont feel like i do.
i still dont want to bother getting anything, my dp keeps saying we need to get a carseat, but quite frankly i dont want to, i just dont feel like going shopping, he has become the mother i swear, because im just not interested, he is wanting to go baby shopping, i keep saying if you want to go go yourself i dont care what you get.
he is being alot more supportive of how i feel, he dosent understand it, and well i havent told him everything, but he knows enough, and has sudenly become human and not telling me to get over it and stop being stupid. he keeps his moth shut more then anything but he has said a few nice things like dont worry about getting all the hose work done ill finish it. and when the baby come ill help as much as i can. dont feel it will be all your responsibility i do know that it will be all up to me because he said the smae thing to me when maximus was born, and i got no help, still he whinges if i ask him to do anything for maximus. but the words make me feel better.