My friends mum passed :(

[Guest1234]

I just found out my friends mum lost her fight with cancer today
We were childhood friends and her mum was so lovely.
I knew she was battling cancer, but I didn't realise it got to this point so quickly
I feel like I've been hit by this quite badly, and I wish I were closer to my friend so if she needed me I could be there for her.

[Mum2Mimi]

hugs 2 ur friend & u
Losing a parent is the hardest,i cant even describe it to some1 who hasnt been through it,just listen when she needs somebody to talk to and if she says things that may sound bizare cause she angry dont judge,when my mum passed i remember saying some awful things to my bestie at the time cause i was angry and going through the stages of greif and she thought i was nuts and thinkin iratioNial

I said to her if i could see her again for just one day 24hrs i would firstley cuddle her so hard and not let go and tell her i love her and y she had to go, then i would yell and scream and punch and kick her and tell her how much i hate her and how selfish she is for leavin me at 13 and then ild wanna do everything possible with her for the remainin hrs and go everywhere and do wateva we waanted to do before she went again,my gf thought i was a nut job and couldnt understand y i was thinkin feelin like this and said wouldnt u just wanna have good memorys rather then fightin if that was the last day u had with her as then u would 4ever feel guilty that u wasted preasuce time yellin at her,at the time i didnt wan 2 hear that jus wanted some1 2 understand or act like they did even though they didnt as they havent been through it

So what im sayin is jus listen and sympathise the best u can,how far away is she?

[TacoFest]

Hugs for your friend

And jess I know how it feels too although my dad only died last year when I was 19 not 13 it still was soooo hard to deal with.