Another thread I started about having a big family made me realise that alot of people really didn't enjoy being one of 4 or 5 or 6..
People felt they missed out on time with their parents, experiences etc
Ideally I would love 4 kids but I am now starting to wonder if that may be somewhat selfish?
Financially we could do it, and we have a great family network.
If I just stick with the two I have now though, I could provide them with so much; travel, education, holidays, one on one time etc, yet I would always have the yearning for another baby (or two!)
Do you feel that your kids, as part of a large family, miss out on anything?
Is the love of a big family enough, or do you need the finances and resources to back it up?