I have found out today that my husband has been pursuing a relationship by phone / sms with an ex-girlfriend. He assures me that it has not progressed to a physical level and that basically he was only participating because it felt good.
It has been going on for two weeks. We have an 18 month old and ... wait for it ... I am 14 weeks pregnant. We are already seeing a counsellor because of the lack of intimacy (sexual - from his part - and emotional) but other than that things were, I believed, good.
Finding out about the emotional affair has made me question our whole relationship and made me realise that our relationship is based on me making life easier for him and putting all the effort in to make things work. He has not done one thing that the counsellor has asked.
He is a great father and has never abused me in any way. However I just feel that I should walk away as he can not or won't do what the relationship needs to work.
Not sure if I am looking for advice or opinions but needed an anonymous forum to rant.