Turned off husband during pregnancy

[Sugarplum2809]

Has this happened to anyone else?
I can not even handle been kissed anymore! I tell him "you smell".
Silly hormones.

[dreamtobeamummy]

Not here.. Thankfully!! if not attracted more

I have heard of it happening to others though.. I hope for your sake it passes soon

[Guest]

Definately the first 3 months I couldn't stand anything or anyone. And the last 3 months he wasn't allowed to sleep in the bed with me so I can be comfortable.
Totally understandable I think...

[Littlemissmetal]

Yep and for me it has only gotten worse.
I first literally became repulsed by any affection from DP when I was around 30 weeks pregnant with DS1 I am now 38 weeks with DS2 and during the time from my first pregnancy to now it has just gotten worse

[mumma2bee]

hi, this must be fairly normal (although i felt terrible feeling and saying it).... im 10 weeks and my husband was being really cute and romantic on the weekend trying to cuddle me and all i could say was "please go away you are boring" im really bored of you. he looked so sad, i kept laughing cause i couldnt believe i was saying it (i dont mean it) but i couldnt help it he was just making me think "get out and i dont care if i ever see you again" not true at all i just felt it then and there.

we havent really bd'd since finding out and he dosent pressure me but i thought id make an effort last night and it was great.

i dont know what happens or how to explain it but its almost a disgust at them at no fault of theirs.
poor things.

He says ever time he goes to kiss me i say "you stink, you smell, your ugly, you need a hair cut, you have a pimple, brush your teeth" etc hahahahaha whatever im pregnant, the baby made me say it!!!

[Skittles]

Yep. My last pregnancy and this one I feel grossed out by the thought of kissing or having sex with my DH. We have dtd a few times and I honestly felt sick to my stomach afterwards......

[neekynoo]

Yep, massively!! With DD I was so sick the whole PG that I really felt like I hated DH. I guess I transferred all the horror I was feeling onto him. Had to blame someone I guess. It was awful, I was so mean and yet I couldn't stop myself

I kept telling him it was the PG and not how I would normally feel, thankfully he hung in there and not long after DD was born everything did get back to normal. I remember telling him I loved him after many months of not telling him and he just cried. I felt so ashamed. Those hormones can really mess you up!!

so far this time I haven't been like I was with DD. It's only early days but hopefully it won't be as bad. DH says it's ok now though cos he knows I don't mean it and it will eventually pass. He's a gem

[donna-maree]

This time round YEP!

I can't stand him, tell him he smells, don't like him touching me and worst of all hate the thought of anything physical

[Sugarplum2809]

I am just not in the mood for anything!
Turn my head when he wants to kiss me.

[JesseBear]

I was the same with my pregnancy - he would try to kiss and hug me and all I kept thinking was GET AWAY!
To be honest I felt sorry for him as there were no "special cuddles" for the full 9 months and a few months after.