+ Reply to Thread
Page 1 of 3 123 LastLast
Results 1 to 10 of 22
  1. #1
    Join Date
    Jul 2009
    Posts
    58
    Thanks
    4
    Thanked
    10
    Reviews
    0

    Default Will I be forced to have a VBAC in public hospital?

    I gave birth to my beautiful DD in March this year - the light of my life . She was 2 weeks overdue so I was induced (strike 1!) which I utterly dreaded (and for good reason too!). It took 4 days of poking and prodding to start the labour, but when it did boy.... did it get started! I went into labour at 5am and by 6am I was having 4 & 8 min long contractions - my uterus was hyperstimulated and I felt like I was going to die. After 18 hours the doctors advised DD was stuck in the wrong position and couldn't turn so I had to have a caesarean section. I didn't find the recovery too bad at all and was up and about the next morning.
    My question is this; can I opt for an elective c-section through the public system for subsequent deliveries? Whilst I love my DD more than life itself, the whole induction experience has filled me with total fear and I'd sooner not have more kids than go through that again. My DH and I are talking about having another baby and I'm having nightmares and can't sleep just thinking about the labour. I can't believe how much it has effected me.
    Is there anyone out there who had a similar experience and has had another bub?

  2. #2
    Join Date
    Sep 2008
    Posts
    358
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked
    8
    Reviews
    3
    Hi there,

    I am very very sorry that you had to go through such a traumatising experience.

    Please don't give up on birth, you have every right to fear induction and such horrible intervention as 4 days of poking and prodding but there is no reason for your next labour to start in the same way.

    Are you sure your DD was overdue, was she big? Was your placenta failing? Is there a chance she was just not ready to come out yet and the dates were wrong or you are perhaps a long gestater?

    Many women have differing experiences with each labour. (I know a lady who has had all four of her births in 5 years start with induction) I think you should definitely talk to a professional about your feelings and fears before you get pregnant again, perhaps try starting with your local child health nurse???

    Experiencing a labour as your body can do it would be a very different experience to your induced labour. If you make your decisions based on fear you may regret them later.

    But to answer your question, yes, you probably could find an obstetrician who would perform elective cs, especially as your first has been one. Please think it over first though.

    Sarah
    Sarah DH
    unecessary cs - DD '00
    'failed' vbac, unecessary cs - DD '03
    vba2c, perfect until the hospital part - DS '09
    hwbavba2c, my 11lb 3oz "show 'em how it's done" homebirth - DS '11

  3. #3
    Join Date
    Apr 2007
    Location
    newcastle
    Posts
    1,372
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked
    0
    Reviews
    0
    I know how you feel, I have had a few of those traumatic births, I am not sure what the public system will do with your next pregnancy, I had 2 vbac's after my first caesar in a public hospital, but now I have had 2 caesars my next bub will be a caesar in late september, I couldn't go through another natural birth especially as I am getting bigger and my c/scar is starting to ache. Good luck and let us know what happens.

  4. #4
    Hooves's Avatar
    Hooves is offline My children/my legacy, the best of me is inside them.
    Join Date
    Mar 2009
    Posts
    1,907
    Thanks
    91
    Thanked
    81
    Reviews
    0
    The choice to have a caesar or a vbac is yours.

    Your doctor or ob, ( depending on where you are) should discuss this with you, and make a decision that you are happy with.

    I would go the elective caesar if that is what you want. Many doctors and hospitals will just book you in for a caesar unless you really want to try for a vbac.


    Surprisingly though, women do have a choice about how they give birth. Well according to my doctor any way, although I didn't learn this until I went through 3 vbs. The first one was traumatic for me, and caused my to have a few issues with the next two.

    SO by the 4th time, I was scared whitless and out of shear terror, I just asked, what are my rights, and can they force me to have a vb?

    To which I was told, you have the right to choose, and no, they can not force you to have a vb.
    Me 35 DH 36
    DD 12, DS1 7 DS2 4
    DS3 arrived by CS 03/06/09

  5. #5
    Join Date
    Jul 2009
    Posts
    58
    Thanks
    4
    Thanked
    10
    Reviews
    0
    Thanks for the feedback everyone. I have an appointment with my doctor and will discuss this issue with her and also see if she knows of someone I can talk to regarding my fears. I agree that I shouldn't fall pregnant again until I have sorted this out in my own head and allowed myself some healing time. At 35 the clock is ticking though. While I'm writing this my DD is on her playmat having the time of her life - its times like these I know the pain is most definitely worth it.........

  6. #6
    Join Date
    Aug 2007
    Posts
    1,077
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked
    0
    Reviews
    0
    The second I was preggas with DS2 I was offered a planned Caesar, and I went public. I went VBAC. There are some women on here that prefer Caesars from giving birth naturally. I prefer neither!! It doesn't matter what you choose as long as you aren't forced into anything. Make the choice that's best for you. I understand the fear, I have it for both ways of giving birth.
    *ME-May '78DH-July '79*
    *DS1-July '05 (C/S) DS2-April '07 (VBAC)*
    *DS3- August '09 (NATURAL)*

  7. #7
    interplanetjanet's Avatar
    interplanetjanet is offline Me: 37 --- DH: 38 --- DS: Born 22/10/07 --- DD: Born 04/08/09
    Join Date
    Apr 2009
    Posts
    93
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked
    0
    Reviews
    0
    My question is this; can I opt for an elective c-section through the public system for subsequent deliveries? Whilst I love my DD more than life itself, the whole induction experience has filled me with total fear and I'd sooner not have more kids than go through that again.
    There shouldn't be any reason why you couldn't ask for a cesarean given that you've had one before, but there's no need to worry about going through a traumatic induction again anyway. They will not induce you for a VBAC. If you don't go into labor on your own and go overdue, they will do a cesarean.


  8. #8
    Join Date
    Apr 2007
    Location
    newcastle
    Posts
    1,372
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked
    0
    Reviews
    0
    Quote Originally Posted by interplanetjanet View Post
    There shouldn't be any reason why you couldn't ask for a cesarean given that you've had one before, but there's no need to worry about going through a traumatic induction again anyway. They will not induce you for a VBAC. If you don't go into labor on your own and go overdue, they will do a cesarean.
    Not sure about this I was induced for my second vbac, because I wasn;t dilating fast enough, and I was already in established labour on arrival at hospital, maybe each hospital has it's own policy on this, worth a check.

  9. #9
    Join Date
    May 2009
    Posts
    619
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked
    0
    Reviews
    0
    What about just avoiding induction, they can't make you be induced... That was where things went wrong...
    Home birth, every home should have one.

  10. #10
    Join Date
    Apr 2007
    Location
    newcastle
    Posts
    1,372
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked
    0
    Reviews
    0
    Quote Originally Posted by Oya View Post
    What about just avoiding induction, they can't make you be induced... That was where things went wrong...
    Oya, when you have a c/s then attempt a vbac you cant stay in labour for too long because of the risk of rupture, so they try to hurry the labour along to be as quick as possible for the safety of both mum and bub, it surely helped mine along my son was born only 30 minutes later.


 

Similar Threads

  1. Replies: 137
    Last Post: 22-06-2012, 13:38
  2. Forced vbac???
    By starla in forum Caesareans
    Replies: 5
    Last Post: 20-06-2012, 08:23
  3. Choosing a public hospital in Perth for VBAC
    By mum2twinboys in forum Seeking a Maternity Hospital
    Replies: 6
    Last Post: 02-02-2012, 12:29

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts

directory quick search

postcode / advanced search basic search

 

who are these people who write great posts? meet our hubbub authors!


forum - chatting now
 
can you help?
new stuff
This Android powered Digital Cookbook comes with over a 1000 preloaded recipes at your fingertips but with access to millions via the internet. View photos, check Facebook and emails & so much more!
sales & discounts
The time is here to cocoon for the winter, prepare yourself with Ripe’s knitwear sale. Enjoy up to 30% off selected knitwear styles online and in any Ripe Maternity store.