Tips on how to battle the nappy change.

**kylza** · 25-06-2009 11:20

I have a daily battle on my hands changing my ds 14 months old nappy, there is kicking, screaming, crying and thats just me

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No honestly I dread nappy change time he puts up such a fight its ridiculous. I have tried giving him things like the TV remote, telephone, keys etc but nothing helps. I have tried pull up nappies but they are very $$$$.
How do you manage to change your bubs bum without working up a sweat?

**workin'mumof2** · 25-06-2009 11:53

ruby went through this and so i thought of saying after each nappy change something positive.

even though he is crying why dont you after each and every nappy change say something like

good boy, that wasnt so bad was it. and carry on with something else.
do you tell him before he gets changed that you want to give him a nappy change?
i know he is only 14months but i always got into the habbit of telling my kids that im going to change there nappy soon.

although there some that dont grow out of it like my nephew who at 3 still crys through a nappy change.

**mummy2mimi** · 25-06-2009 12:11

my dd who is 12months old is exactley the same,trys 2 rool over and get away,kicking and screamin and tring 2 hit my face or pull my hair,its so embarrasing when u are in a public parents room aswell

the only thing that wokrs for me is 2 make her a bottle and lie her down with that whilst i change her

which is really not a good habbit 2 get in2

sorry i couldnt have helped but it is a phase and ur not the only 1!

**em1984** · 25-06-2009 12:11

Its crazy isnt it! Anyone would think they actually enjoy sitting in their own waste! At work when we had kids like this and all distraction techniques had been worn out, like pp said, telling them what you are doing helped and assuring them that yes, they will be able to go back to what they were doing after and we will make it as quick an painless as possible

talking to them about it as opposed to just yanking them from what they are doing, and also giving a 2 minutes warning like 'in 2 minutes I'm going to change your nappy, we will do it nice and quick and then you can return to playing with your trucks'. And then rewarding when he is good with lots of praise.
It is harder with a little one that doesnt quite have that understanding yet though, i know. I have a special nappy time toy for Noah and that works a treat for us, at this stage. Do you change him up on a change table? WHat about even changing him on the floor if you are. Or singing to him, putting a fun poster or something on the roof he can look at ummm I'll keep thinking....

**JackzMumma** · 25-06-2009 16:35

I love that nappy change time between the ages of 1 & 2!!! Not.

I just did my best to distract or wrestle whichever was best at the time.

I've hit transition now though.......one minute it's "you need a nappy change", "no" *runs away*....and the next it's "mum...poo's" (really wee's

), "do you want a nappy change?" "yes".

I don't know if I'm Arthur or Martha!!

**cindye** · 25-06-2009 17:24

My DD went through a stage of hating nappy changes, and something that worked was attaching half a dozen or so pegs to her clothes which she would try and get off. By the time she got them all off, the nappy change was done.

She's actually really good now and lays perfectly still, even lifting up her legs so I can wipe her easily!

Maybe something you could try...

**Cheerio** · 25-06-2009 17:32

I have had the same problem with DD. I noticed with her it was for a reaction so I ignored her and firmly (not to hurt her obviously) just kept changing and didn't look at her. She HATED not getting attention so now lies there perfectly still. I also did what others suggested and telling her I was going to change her nappy and praising her afterward for being such a good girl. It was horrible when we were going through it because I was also pregnant and terrified she was going to hurt bub.

Goodluck its amazing how strong these little ones are!

**presley** · 25-06-2009 20:40

Originally Posted by cindye

My DD went through a stage of hating nappy changes, and something that worked was attaching half a dozen or so pegs to her clothes which she would try and get off. By the time she got them all off, the nappy change was done.

that's a great idea!! Will try that one.

I've just had a breakthough with my wriggly one - I use my left hand to hold his left leg (as in his leg on my right) just below the knee and with the back of my left arm I keep his other leg bent back - it's surprisingly much easier to stop him rolling around and twisting away and keeps my RH free to wipe. Does that make sense? It's revolutionised my nappy times!!

Also now that he's talking a bit more I use the time to teach him new noises (like rasberries, moo-ing etc). I find being really animated and engaging keeps him entertained - just slap on that fake giant smile and happy voice and sing your heart out!!

**squiglet** · 27-06-2009 06:54

We went though this stage about then too.
For us goofing around and stickers helped.
I would put a fun sticker on my nose and chase her to the change table, then she could take the sticker of my nose to play with when I was changing her.
Or I would put a couple of stickers on her (like her hands or her nose too) for her to find and play with.

It worked most of the time

**Ollibot** · 27-06-2009 07:12

Well I seem to have a scrappy little dude too, he's been putting up a fight since he figured
how to roll over, but at 10mths now he's really defiant.
I find putting him on the poof in front of the tv works, I think looking at it upside down distracts him for them few seconds....I don't have a problem when we are out because every thing is new around him...
Though...that will probably change now as I find every time I say something lately...the oppostite happens...sheesh..