i hate the thought of being a burden on people but i think i need some advice.....
my dp has an issue with alcohol!!!
we both made a pact that come new years we would both give up drinking and smoking and so far i have held up my end but about 3 weeks ago he caved and has gone back to his old ways,he drinks himself stupid every night,he will get home from work or working at his brothers house after work and he will come inside smelling of beer and says a quick 2 min hello to me and the kids and then goes and sits in his shed and drink.
and by the time he comes inside at about 10-11pm i have put the kids into bed so he never really see's or spends time with them....not only that but in the last 3 weeks he has pulled 5 sikie's and everytime i had to ring in sick for him....we have bills to pay he needs to work,i am a sahm but i keep offering to go back to work so he can stay at home with the kids,but he refuses and says that he wouldn't cope
i feel like i can't look at him and i am starting to not feel any affection towards him....i don't know what to do.even our family day sunday has gone he is usally to hungover to do anything with us,so i usually go out with the kids on my own.i have treid telling him how i feel but he just brushes me off with excuses as to why he drinks....
i feel like im raising our kids all by myself.
a question i want to ask is "does this happen to anyone else?"